lol i think she is making a ridiculously big deal out of it. but i do think that your child's disciplinary issues and grades and the like should be between you, the kid and the teacher. if the teacher was unsure about whether or not mom was getting notes, she could have simply CALLED. plenty of teachers did that all the way through high school. and no one i know ever went home with a piece of paper stapled to their shirt. i really dont think its news worthy though.